Ukuqala konyaka omusha kuletha ithemba njalo. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi uJanuwari usula isileyiti ezinkingeni okungenzeka uhlangabezane nazo kulezi zinyanga eziyi-12 ezedlule, kodwa empeleni akwenzeki. Ngalokhu engqondweni, ngingakuphakamisa yini ukuthi ubheke kabusha abahlinzeki bakho? Ukuphepha kokudla kanye nokuvikeleka kokudla kuzoqhubeka nokuba yizindaba ngo-2008, futhi manje isikhathi esingcono kakhulu sokuqinisekisa ukuthi umkhiqizo wakho uphephile.
Vakashela Abakhiqizi Nabapakisha
Ugcine nini ukuvakashela abahlinzeki bakho? Uma sekuphele unyaka, bhukha izindiza zakho namuhla! Izinto ziyashintsha phakathi nonyaka, futhi lokho okwake kwaba umthumeli omkhulu kungase kubonakale kuhlukile namuhla. Uqala kuphi? Kuthiwani phansi? Ungase ufune ukufaka phakathi ukuvakashela izindawo ezikhulayo (ngesizini) ukuze uzibonele mathupha ukuthi zenza kanjani izinto.
Abahlinzeki bakho kufanele bajabulele ukukusiza futhi cishe bazohlela ukuthi umphathi wabo wepulazi akuhambise nawe. Isikhathi esiningi, laba bantu bangochwepheshe futhi benza Imikhuba Emihle Yezolimo (ama-GAP). Bayaziqhenya ngemisebenzi yabo kanye nabantu babo. Basebenza ngezandla futhi bazokujabulela “ukukufundisa” okwengeziwe ngokulima kunalokho odinga ukukwazi.
Okulandelayo, vakashela imisebenzi yokupakisha - noma ngabe ukupakisha ensimini noma eshedini lokupakisha - udinga ukulandela umkhiqizo. Uma uvakashela ishede lokupakisha, ngincoma ukuthi uqale lapho kuthululwa khona imigqomo noma amaloli. Bona ukuthi isitshalo siwuphatha kanjani umkhiqizo uma usufikile endlini yokupakisha. Ingabe igcinwa ngokushesha noma ipakishwa ngokushesha? Landela umkhiqizo ngenqubo yokupakisha. Qala ngamasu okugeza - bese ubuza imibuzo. Abapakishi bawagcina kanjani amanzi ehlanzekile? Qhubeka wehle ngomugqa ukuze uhlole ukuthi umkhiqizo womiswe kanjani futhi ubuke abasebenzi bomugqa wokugreda. Buza ngokwenqaba kwabo - ungase umangale ukuthi yini engabakhiqizi. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuhlola imishini ngokwayo. Uma ingcolile, kanjalo nomkhiqizo wakho.
Iqiniso liwukuthi, izindawo eziningi ozivakashelayo zizoba sesimweni esihle. Kodwa njalo nje uzohlangana nesitshalo esingadinga ukunakwa okwengeziwe ngenxa yezimo noma imikhuba.
Ukuphepha kokudla
Namuhla, ukulondeka kokudla kuya kuba okubaluleke nakakhulu. Ngenyanga edlule, ngivakashele izikhungo eziningi lapho bekunezinqubo eziqavile zokuvikeleka kokudla. Ngaphambi kokuba sivunyelwe ukuba singene kule ndawo, onogada babheka omazisi bethu futhi bafuna ukwazi ukuthi ubani esasihlela ukumvakashela. Ucingo olusheshayo oluya ehhovisi lwaqinisekisa imininingwane yethu, futhi savunyelwa ukungena endaweni.
Ehhovisi, ngaphambi kokuba sivunyelwe ukuba singene ezindaweni zokupakisha, isisebenzi sasibuza ngempilo yethu. Ingabe sibe nomkhuhlane? Ingabe sinezifo ezithile? Babenohlu lokuhlola lwezinto ezicishe zibe ngu-20. Uma siphendula eyodwa ngo “yebo,” sasingavunyelwe ukungena. Kwakulula kanjalo. Babengafuni muntu - ngisho namakhaza amancane - angene endaweni lapho sasingase sidlulisele amagciwane kubasebenzi babo.
Ngokulandelayo sanikezwa isethi yemithetho okufanele siyilandele. Enye kwakuwukuphuma kwesakhiwo uma kunesimo esiphuthumayo - okokuqala kimi. Ngaphambi kokungena kulesi sikhungo, kwakudingeka sigeze izicathulo zethu ngamanzi ahlanzekile (izifutho zaziwasha okuphansi futhi izikhonkwane zazingase zisetshenziswe phezulu uma unamabhuzu). Okulandelayo, ngemva kokugqoka amajazi elebhu, amanetha ezinwele namagilavu, kwase kuyisikhathi sokuqala ukuvakasha kwethu. Sama esiteshini sokugeza izandla, silandelwa umshini wokomisa umoya onamandla kakhulu emhlabeni. Ekugcineni, sahamba ngokushesha endaweni yokugezela yezinyawo futhi savunyelwa ukuba singene.
Ngemva kokulandela umkhiqizo kusukela ekuqaleni kuze kube sekupheleni, sacela ukubona ukuthi umkhiqizo osuphelile wawugcinwe kuphi ngaphambi kokuba ulayishwe emalolini. Izinsiza eziningi zikuholela emakamelweni noma emathekwini. Hhayi lapha. Bekufanele singene ngemvume ukuze nje singene eminyango ekhiyiwe siye endaweni yomkhiqizo ophelile. Umuntu owayesingenisa wayenemvume ekhethekile yokusingenisa ekamelweni, futhi akazange asishiye.
Lezi zinsiza beziphephile, zivikelekile futhi zihlanzekile. Yilokhu okufunayo ezikhungweni zakho zokupakisha namuhla. Qiniseka ukuthi uyabuza ukuthi yiziphi izinqubo zokuvikela ukudla ezikhona. Nakuba kungaphoqelekile, kuya ngokuya kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ukufunda Ngokubheka
Lapho ngithengisa ukukhangisa, ngavakashela amapaki amakhulu - namancane - embonini. Kodwa empeleni angizange ngibheke ukuhlinzwa ngendlela engibheka ngayo namuhla. Njengoba ngenze uhambo oluningi nochwepheshe bokuphepha kokudla abafana no-Edith Garrett, Marvin List noSara Stinson, umbono wami ngezindlu zokupakisha usushintshile. Laba ochwepheshe bakhipha imizwa ku-equation futhi babheke ngale kwangaphandle.
Namuhla, ngibheka izinto ezincane nezinkinga. Amehlo ami abheke phansi ngokushesha phansi kwesikhungo futhi ngibheka izicupho zokulawula amagundane (amakati amathini) ngaphakathi kanye neziteshi zokudoba eduze komjikelezo ongaphandle wesakhiwo. Ngibheka ukuhlanzeka kwabasebenzi ukuze ngibone ukuthi balandela imigudu ebekwe yisikhungo.
Ngincoma kakhulu ukuthi uvakashele abahlinzeki bakho abakhulu ngo-2008. Uzofunda okuningi futhi uzokwazi ukubuyisela ehhovisi lakho umuzwa ongcono mayelana nomkhiqizo wakho.